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Post by kds on Jan 24, 2019 8:53:40 GMT -5
Nobody wanted to discuss the most polarizing member of the band?
I'll start it off.
While, Mike Love undoubtedly has his foibles (don't we all), I personally think the hate that he gets is totally unnecessary. Here's a few common talking points when it comes to Mike.
The HOF Speech - Not a great moment, I'll agree. But if this were Keith Richards or Ozzy Osbourne, it would've been a "rock star" moment. Alex Lifeson completely took the piss with his HOF speech, saying only "blah blah blah."
He overly falls back on past glories and surf / car lyrics - Yeah, who's touring on Pet Sounds for the 4th year in a row? And what's so bad about the lyric writer for a band called The Beach Boys writing about the beach and cars?
The reunion - People can believe what they want to believe, but it did seem that Mike was in favor of carrying into 2013.
Anyway, I think Mike has released two pretty good albums in recent years (the second disc of UTL notwithstanding), and the Mike and Bruce Beach Boys continue to do the classic music justice.
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Post by mamawilson on Jan 24, 2019 11:00:28 GMT -5
It's to the point where I feel bad for him, honestly. None of the Beach Boys had it easy, and he's no exception. It must be hard having your name be synonymous with such hateful ideas.
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Post by kds on Jan 24, 2019 11:50:30 GMT -5
It's to the point where I feel bad for him, honestly. None of the Beach Boys had it easy, and he's no exception. It must be hard having your name be synonymous with such hateful ideas. I tend to agree. And, let's be honest, the Wilson brothers, Brian in particular, had issues. It couldn't have been easy dealing with them.
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Post by mamawilson on Jan 24, 2019 18:52:01 GMT -5
Not at all. I think people just tend to view the situation out of context because they weren't there, and now they have the hindsight.
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Post by kds on Jan 25, 2019 7:58:18 GMT -5
Not at all. I think people just tend to view the situation out of context because they weren't there, and now they have the hindsight. Right, and the same people tend to think that the Wilsons, again Brian in particular, are perfect angels.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 8:10:00 GMT -5
I'd been contemplating a Mike topic myself but didn't really know what to say! (Happens.) So thanks, kds. Of course, I could have said that it was Mike who sang the Beach Boys song that converted me for ever in 2002. So I'll say it now instead.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 8:10:20 GMT -5
Mike has done some shitty things, but everyone in the band has done some shitty things, because good people do shitty things sometimes. I honestly think his intentions, most of the time, are not meant to be malicious, but that he just really has no self-awareness about how he comes across.
One of the things that stood out to me recently was listening to the 1968 On Tour release, and hearing Mike apologize to the audience for playing certain songs, or for being there at all. Dude. These people bought tickets to your show. They love you, just shut up! Where is this coming from? He genuinely cares about wanting to put on a good show and make the audience happy.
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Post by kds on Jan 25, 2019 8:13:41 GMT -5
Mike has done some shitty things, but everyone in the band has done some shitty things, because good people do shitty things sometimes. I honestly think his intentions, most of the time, are not meant to be malicious, but that he just really has no self-awareness about how he comes across. One of the things that stood out to me recently was listening to the 1968 On Tour release, and hearing Mike apologize to the audience for playing certain songs, or for being there at all. Dude. These people bought tickets to your show. They love you, just shut up! Where is this coming from? He genuinely cares about wanting to put on a good show and make the audience happy. Mike's definitely a guy who could benefit from a good PR person. Im sure Mike wasnt happy that, by 1968, they werent selling records like they used to, plus he had a diminished role in the creative process. Considering he wrote the lyrics of so many of their classics, I can see why he'd be frustrated.
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Post by jh055 on Jan 25, 2019 8:50:31 GMT -5
I think Mike tried to be a “go w the flow” guy through all the more “progressive” music the band was making, (Do it again notwithstanding), but after Holland, and the success of Endless Summer, and the general apathy towards the 67 -73 material, he longed for the glory days again. And it’s hard to blame him. Must have seemed like they were pushing a boulder up a hill, when for 6 or more years they had been producing works that most of us now think of as the greatest period in their history, with little fan appreciation and sales to show for it. I’m as guilty of the next guy for wishing there had been half a dozen more records like Sunflower,Surfs up, and Holland. Still makes me sad that they kinda threw in the towel, especially live, and resigned themselves to playing Help me Rhonda and Surfin USA because that’s what the people responded to.
But, as someone else said, Mike is his own worst enemy. The HOF speech, the lawsuits, the continual jabs at the Wilsons as depressed guys with drug problems, and the endless crusade to paint himself as the “positivity” guy in the band don’t help his cause. Ok, there is truth to some of those things, but a good PR person might have phrased things differently, or pointed out the futility of trying to educate the world on what a mess BW was. There is a legend surrounding Brian, he is beloved, and rightly so, despite his problems.
last, I think John Lennon was a guy with a lot of issues and was tough to deal with, but Paul McCartney continued to sing his praises for ever after. If you could give him some truth serum, he might have more to say, but he understands how the world feels about John.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 9:04:06 GMT -5
I'd been contemplating a Mike topic myself but didn't really know what to say! (Happens.) So thanks, kds . Of course, I could have said that it was Mike who sang the Beach Boys song that converted me for ever in 2002. So I'll say it now instead. All I Wanna Do is one of Mike's all time greatest moments. It also holds the title for my current favourite Beach Boys song, for several months now.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 9:26:03 GMT -5
Professionally and personally, Mike Love has made - and continues to make - mistakes in his career and life. That would make him like 99.9% of the world's population. And, contrary to some opinions, fans of Mike and The Beach Boys have acknowledged these mistakes and have held Mike accountable, to varying degrees. I say "to varying degrees" because some fans will continually bring up the mistakes and actual enjoy vilifying Mike, where other fans will view the situation as "yep, there he goes again" and move on. That doesn't mean those fans are excusing Mike or not holding him accountable. It just means that they don't enjoy...hating one of their Beach Boys.
While Mike is and should be accountable for his actions, he is also a victim of human nature. Mike Love will never be loved like Brian Wilson and even Dennis Wilson, and Mike Love will never be excused or forgiven for his shortcomings, again like Brian Wilson and Dennis Wilson. Why? Because Mike Love didn't give us Pet Sounds or Pacific Ocean Blue or the timeless, beautiful music - music! - that Brian and Dennis did. Mike wasn't as responsible for giving fans AS MUCH HAPPINESS, again through the music, as Brian and Dennis did. So, Mike will not be as excused for his behavior, whereas Brian and Dennis are usually excused. That's just the way it is, not just with The Beach Boys, but with other artists/musicians in general - see Johnny Cash, John Lennon, Elvis Presley, Willie Nelson, Frank Sinatra, and others. They have given us so much happiness through their music that we tend to overlook their character flaws or how they lived some/much of their lives.
I think there is another more minor reason that explains the dichotomy between Mike and Brian/Dennis Wilson, and that's what basically "happened" to Brian and Dennis, and what didn't happen to Mike. Fans see Mike traveling the world, happily fronting The Beach Boys, smiling and acknowledging standing ovations and praise, experiencing good health and wealth, and living the kind of life that fans wished Brian and Dennis could've/would've lived. When you see what happened to Brian and Dennis, and compare that to Mike's life, again the human nature factor kicks in. It's not fair some would say. I truly believe some fans feel that way.
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Post by AGD on Jan 25, 2019 10:18:36 GMT -5
Been saying it for some time (and just because it's this particular water carrier saying it doesn't make it any less valid) that for a certain segment of the fanbase, Mike's biggest failing is that he's not Brian.
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Post by mamawilson on Jan 25, 2019 13:14:42 GMT -5
Been saying it for some time (and just because it's this particular water carrier saying it doesn't make it any less valid) that for a certain segment of the fanbase, Mike's biggest failing is that he's not Brian. I think you hit the nail on the head right there.
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Post by filledeplage on Jan 25, 2019 13:43:30 GMT -5
Been saying it for some time (and just because it's this particular water carrier saying it doesn't make it any less valid) that for a certain segment of the fanbase, Mike's biggest failing is that he's not Brian. I think you hit the nail on the head right there. Guess I look at this very differently - from post-Carl. Carl was the MD from the time I started seeing them live in the mid to later 60's after Brian left the road. I think Mike's greatest contribution was touring the BB music after Carl died, even if things were never going to be the same, he built the BB Touring Band pretty much from scratch. And I think the early years were kind of shaky, but Mike tightened up the personnel, refined it, made some hard decisions in the process but helped fill that huge void for the fans. Mike went from being a band member to being front-and-center, at the helm to keep it going. The touring aspect always sustained them - through the lean years, finding that/those niche market/s where fans could hear live BB music, and learn how to work with their massive catalog to tailor set-lists to the regions and venues where they performed. I look at him through the lens of post 1998 when his involvement became more pronounced. p.s. And, I think that Al Jardine really came into his own when he built a band and toured the work as well. He is amazing as well. Out of that tragedy of losing Carl (and Dennis earlier) they both stepped up and found their way on the road.
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Post by The Cap'n on Jan 25, 2019 20:28:00 GMT -5
Mike has a certain cluelessness and tone deafness that, frankly, is entirely predictable. It's not easy to age well, and it must be doubly or triply difficult for someone to do so in public. As Jackson Browne said in an already decades-old doc, being on top almost makes inevitable your eventual fall. What Mike thought was (or thinks is) "cool" isn't anymore, not for some segment of the world.
There's a lot I don't like about Mike's contributions to the Beach Boys story.
But he co-wrote some great songs. He sang some great songs. He performs great songs. The amount of pleasure he has brought to the world through his role in the band is almost incalculable. So basically, people with such a problem with him can fuck off.
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Post by mamawilson on Jan 25, 2019 23:16:56 GMT -5
Mike has a certain cluelessness and tone deafness that, frankly, is entirely predictable. It's not easy to age well, and it must be doubly or triply difficult for someone to do so in public. As Jackson Browne said in an already decades-old doc, being on top almost makes inevitable your eventual fall. What Mike thought was (or thinks is) "cool" isn't anymore, not for some segment of the world.
There's a lot I don't like about Mike's contributions to the Beach Boys story.
But he co-wrote some great songs. He sang some great songs. He performs great songs. The amount of pleasure he has brought to the world through his role in the band is almost incalculable. So basically, people with such a problem with him can fuck off.
Good point on that. It must be hard trying to make sense of today with an such an older mindset.
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Post by jh055 on Jan 26, 2019 9:08:25 GMT -5
Mike has a certain cluelessness and tone deafness that, frankly, is entirely predictable. It's not easy to age well, and it must be doubly or triply difficult for someone to do so in public. As Jackson Browne said in an already decades-old doc, being on top almost makes inevitable your eventual fall. What Mike thought was (or thinks is) "cool" isn't anymore, not for some segment of the world.
There's a lot I don't like about Mike's contributions to the Beach Boys story.
But he co-wrote some great songs. He sang some great songs. He performs great songs. The amount of pleasure he has brought to the world through his role in the band is almost incalculable. So basically, people with such a problem with him can fuck off.
I agree w everything in this post except the last line. Telling people to f**k off seems mean spirited and might discourage some folks from sharing their views and opinions.
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Post by kds on Jan 26, 2019 9:59:51 GMT -5
Mike has a certain cluelessness and tone deafness that, frankly, is entirely predictable. It's not easy to age well, and it must be doubly or triply difficult for someone to do so in public. As Jackson Browne said in an already decades-old doc, being on top almost makes inevitable your eventual fall. What Mike thought was (or thinks is) "cool" isn't anymore, not for some segment of the world.
There's a lot I don't like about Mike's contributions to the Beach Boys story.
But he co-wrote some great songs. He sang some great songs. He performs great songs. The amount of pleasure he has brought to the world through his role in the band is almost incalculable. So basically, people with such a problem with him can fuck off.
I agree w everything in this post except the last line. Telling people to f**k off seems mean spirited and might discourage some folks from sharing their views and opinions. Considering some of the horrid, vile things I've seen written about Mike from some so called "fans," I tend to think Capn's last sentence is very apt.
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Post by mamawilson on Jan 26, 2019 10:54:33 GMT -5
Fair enough, that.
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Post by The Cap'n on Jan 26, 2019 12:57:09 GMT -5
Mike has a certain cluelessness and tone deafness that, frankly, is entirely predictable. It's not easy to age well, and it must be doubly or triply difficult for someone to do so in public. As Jackson Browne said in an already decades-old doc, being on top almost makes inevitable your eventual fall. What Mike thought was (or thinks is) "cool" isn't anymore, not for some segment of the world.
There's a lot I don't like about Mike's contributions to the Beach Boys story.
But he co-wrote some great songs. He sang some great songs. He performs great songs. The amount of pleasure he has brought to the world through his role in the band is almost incalculable. So basically, people with such a problem with him can fuck off.
I agree w everything in this post except the last line. Telling people to f**k off seems mean spirited and might discourage some folks from sharing their views and opinions. That's fair. Honestly I didn't mean it like a personal attack on anyone in particular, and certainly I don't want to discourage anyone from posting their opinions: there's nothing more tiresome than unanimity of opinion, in fact. (I actually think that our--"our" meaning the BBs fan community on various boards over the past couple decades--discussions of Carl, Dennis, and Al suffer from such a problem.)
As I was writing it, "fuck off" was meant more as a vague dismissal of that opinion as an unhealthy and at least somewhat unreasonable position. (More unhealthy than unreasonable, I'd say.) But to anyone who took it as discouragement from posting, please reconsider and post. Read it instead as "I heartily disagree with you."
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Post by Mikie on Jan 26, 2019 13:34:20 GMT -5
But he co-wrote some great songs. He sang some great songs. He performs great songs. The amount of pleasure he has brought to the world through his role in the band is almost incalculable. So basically, people with such a problem with him can fuck off.
I agree w everything in this post except the last line. Telling people to f**k off seems mean spirited and might discourage some folks from sharing their views and opinions. Yep! I agree with that.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2019 14:29:02 GMT -5
Here's my thoughts on Mike. Never let it be said that I'm a Mike basher or Brianista, but I think sometimes in recent years some fans go too far in the other direction, trying to exonerate him of everything.
I always thought some, not all, of the early hits lyrics were cheesy, even as a young kid. However, I don't think that diminishes their appeal in any way. They're fun, catchy and kind of cool in their cheesiness so they do the job. However, I do agree with Catch a Wave author Peter Ames Carlin in that once we got to California Girls, Brian's music surpassed Mike's lyrics and the latter held the track back.
I think Mike could write genuinely great lyrics when he wanted to in the early days. Warmth of the Sun is fantastic, as are many others in that somber, vulnerable tradition which are too numerous to list. I never realized he wrote Im Waiting for the Day on Pet Sounds because it's so seamless with the Asher material. Speaking of which, Mike's Good Vibes lyrics blow Asher's out of the water.
Mike deserved to be credited from the beginning and Brian not resolving this issue until decades later and a court case is inexcusable. Blaming it on Murry is pathetic--if Brian had wanted to he could have rectified the situation long before it had gotten to that point.
Mike didn't kill SMiLE and he had a right to feel upset considering he probably saw himself as Brian's McCartney only to find out his cousin didn't feel the same way. Any of us would have felt hurt, and probably wouldn't have handled it in the absolute best way. But Mike should have just sat Brian down and told him his feelings and/or tried to write his own lyrics to bring to Brian. Instead, he bullied Van and probably belittled Brian's new music. Mike's bad attitude is overstated as a reason for the album's cancellation, but to pretend he didn't even kick up a fuss is whitewashing in my opinion.
Mike's writing in the post-SMiLE but pre-15BO years leaves a lot to be desired for me. SDT is terrible and the TM songs are pretty irritating.
Mike constantly talking about Back in the USSR/meeting the Beatles is embarassing since it's clear they never gave him a second thought yet he acts like they were best buds. Picses Brothers is a good example of this. Besides being a mediocre track, it's kind of cringe-inducing to hear a man play up his closeness to a guy who clearly didn't feel half as strong and is dead now. It almost feels like exploiting that association for glory.
A lot of the fights in the 70s I've heard about on SS seem to put Dennis and/or the other Wilsons in a worse light than Mike. It seems like Mike was always the more professional one trying to put on a good show. However...
The cheerleaders in the 80s were tacky and pervy.
The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame speech was humiliating for all concerned. Mike was clearly drunk and as talented and hard working as he is, he doesn't have the clout to insult the other artists like that. It's like your drunk Uncle Lester shitting on your more successful Uncle Ned at Thanksgiving dinner. It's not some badass rock and roll rebellion moment like some fans make it out to be today. What's more, I hate how he kept adjusting the mic for no reason while Brian was talking--this clearly threw him off and you can hear his voice start to quiver and trail off.
Kokomo isn't a good enough song to constantly brag about, and since then Mike got way too lazy with his songwriting.
Suing Brian over BWPS was a meanspirited move that feels like he was just trying to dump on his cousin's triumphant moment.
I think Melinda antagonizes Mike more than the other way around, and I have my doubts it's at Brian's directive. I don't know all the ins and outs of the reunion falling apart so I won't comment on that specifically.
That said, Mike needs to cool it with the interviews. Constantly bringing up someone else's long rehabilitated drug abuse is not cool. Imagine if you were a recovering alcoholic or had a mental breakdown in your past and your family member went out of their way to bring it up at every social event for anyone who'd listen. It's just mean and an unecessary thing to do to family--or anyone else. He also seems to use it as a deflection--like mentioning Brian's drug use as his own biggest regret when clearly they're unrelated.
Even if it's doubtful whether Mike owes Brian an apology...he should do so. It'd be great PR for himself and healing the band if he just showed a bit more humility for everything his cousin went through. Mike seems to come from an older generation where to show any kind of feeling or humility is seen as weakness when really it can make an artist's public perception a lot stronger.
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Post by The Cap'n on Jan 26, 2019 15:41:18 GMT -5
I agree with a lot of that: you detailed my feelings without telling anyone to fuck off. Kudos.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2019 15:43:33 GMT -5
I agree with a lot of that: you detailed my feelings without telling anyone to fuck off. Kudos. If this is directed at me, then thank you
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Post by The Cap'n on Jan 26, 2019 15:46:07 GMT -5
Yep, it was for you.
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